~ No Excuses ~
Many people say you had better forget about yourself and love other people. Well, it doesn't work that way. The truth is, you must first accept yourself with all your mistakes - all of your so-called sins, all the times you look like a fool, and all the times you've acted inappropriately.
You must be able to stand before the entire world and make no excuse for yourself.
When you can do that, you're coming from a position of unconditional love.