The following is a chapter from a book entitled "Creative Visualization" by Shakti Gawain. It is a powerful and
yet very practical book illustrating the use of visualization. This particular chapter discusses the dynamics of giving.
I hope you enjoy! Linda
Another key principal is that of giving, or "outflowing."
The universe is made up of pure energy, the nature of which is to move and
flow. The nature of life is constant change, constant flux. When we
understand this, we tune into its rhythm and we are able to give and receive freely,
knowing that we never really lose anything, but constantly gain.
Once we begin to learn to accept the goodness of the universe, we naturally want
to share it as well, realizing that as we give out of our energy, we make space for more
to flow into us.
When, through insecurity (fear) and a feeling that there "isn't enough," we try to hold onto or
cling to what we have, we begin to cut off this wonderful flow of energy. In hanging onto what we have,
we fail to keep the energy moving and we don't make space for new energy to come to us.
Energy takes many forms, such as love, affection, appreciation and recognition, material possessions,
money, friendship, etc. and the principles apply equally to all these forms.
If you look around you at those who are most unhappy, you'll find they are often people who have a "starved"
feeling in some way, and are therefore in a very grasping posture toward life. They feel that life in general and other people in
particular are not giving them what they need. It is as if they have a stranglehold on life, trying desperately
to wring out the love and satisfaction they crave, yet actually choking off the supply. And many of us have a little of this tendency.
When we find that place within ourselves that is giving, we begin to reverse the flow. Giving happens not from a space of sacrifice, or
self-righteousness, or an idea of spirituality, but for the pure pleasure of it - because it's fun. It can only come from a full, loving space.
We each have an infinite supply of love and happiness within us. We have been accustomed to thinking that we have to get
something from outside us in order to learn to contact our inner source of
happiness and satisfaction and flow it outward to share with others - not because it is virtuous to do so, but because it feels really good! Once we tune
into it we just naturally want to share it because that is the essential nature of love, and we are all loving beings.
As we outflow our loving energy, we make room for more to flow into us. We soon discover that this process feels so good in itself we just want to do
it more and more. And the more you share of yourself from this space, the more you seem to get from the world, because the of the outflow-inflow
principle. (Nature abhors a vacuum, so as you outflow you create space into which something must inflow.) Giving becomes its
own reward.
When we fully understand and live this we have manifested our innately loving
nature.
So you will find in your use of creative visualization, that the more basically
"giving" orientation you have to life, the easier it will be to fulfill your dreams... but remember always that you
can't continue to give unless you are equally open to receiving... and that "giving" also means giving to yourself...
When it comes to outflowing, practice makes perfect. You must consciously practice it in order to get the experience of
how good it feels. Here are some exercises in outflowing you can try if you need some expansion in this area:
Practice speaking more words of thanks, appreciation and admiration to people when you feel like it. "It was kind of you to help me." "I want you to know that I appreciate that."
Shakti Gawain Creative Visualization New World Library, San Rafael, 1978 |